IMPORTANT INFORMATION:
The Safety Exit Button is at the bottom right of this, and every, page.
It will take you to google.com in a new tab and your existing tab, with no back button.
Feel free to test it out beforehand in case you need it
This site is for anyone affected by domestic abuse, especially coercive control, and is a space to find truth, strength and solidarity.
I wanted to write a book, but this felt more accessible, and much easier to break down into little chunks. I knew I wanted to share my story as it needs sharing, however, it’s really hard to go back over it, very draining at times and takes a lot of mental effort. Because of that, instead of chapters, I’m sharing moments such as incidents, memories, reflections, and the pieces of life that shaped the journey from the beginning, through the middle and end, into the aftermath where rebuilding truly begins. Maybe one day it’ll make a book, but for now, let’s just get it out!
The website will start with my experiences, but it isn’t only about me. It’s about all of us: those living it, leaving it, or trying to understand it. No one should face abuse in silence. We are here because we need each other. Sharing our stories (mine and yours) creates understanding, breaks isolation and reveals patterns that are hard to see when you’re inside them.
Please see the Submit Your Story post for more details (link coming soon).
Whether you’re still in it, finding your way out, or rebuilding afterwards, this is a space for empowerment, recovery and flourishing. A reminder that leaving is possible, healing is real, and hope grows stronger in all of us.
